MY TURKEY & MY MUSLIM NEIGHBOR

Even something as simple as purchasing a turkey can become a key to interfaith understanding. I learned that recently.

I serve as Lay Chaplain for a campus ministry and I needed to buy a halal turkey for our Thanksgiving dinner. Halal “is an Arabic word meaning lawful or permitted. In reference to food, it is the dietary standard, as prescribed in the Qur’an (the Muslim scripture).”

My nine-year-old step daughter came along with me to the only halal market in our area in Northwest Arkansas. On the car ride over I took the opportunity to have a conversation with her about religion practice and food. We talked about what it means for meat to be halal, prepared as prescribed by Muslim law. Then we talked about Judaism and the kosher diet. Finally, we talked about whether our faith impacts how and what we choose to eat. Our consensus was that it all comes down to making the best choices we can in a given situation to respect creation and nourish our bodies.

We got to the store, which upon our arrival was closed for fifteen minutes so that the cashier could say his afternoon prayer. It turned out the halal turkey was not in stock yet. So, I returned a few days later, the shipment had still not arrived. This time the cashier recognized me. On my third trip there was a turkey waiting for me and I had another opportunity to engage my neighbor.

Islamophobia is one of many plagues sweeping the modern United States. Anti-Muslim sentiment relies on expansive, hateful judgement not fact or reality. The Muslim community is diverse – just like the Christian community is diverse. The Muslim faith is nuances – as is the Christian world. According to the Times article Islamophobia Is Ruining America—But Not How You Think, “Knowing a Muslim is the best inoculant against anti-Muslim bigotry.” So, if you agree that islamophobia is harmful then get out there and know your Muslim neighbors.

If you’re a Christian like I am we are commissioned by Jesus: “I give you a new commandment: love one another.” (John 13:34) The Koran, the sacred book of the Islamic faith, has a similar command: “O humankind! Behold we created you male and female and we made you into many nations and tribes so that you might come to know one another.”

This is what my community did. On Tuesday of last week, we had our halal Turkey. We’ll sit down for a Thanksgiving dinner together with students of the University and families who have been resettled in Northwest Arkansas over the past year, some of whom are Muslim. We will meet our neighbors, learn from each other, and learn to love.

4 Comments Add yours

  1. David Farrington says:

    Thanks for sharing your story. This is one reason why, despite its problematic historical baggage, I think Thanksgiving is such an important holiday. It can be embraced by people of any – or no – faith tradition. A century ago it gave Jewish immigrants an opportunity to celebrate alongside their Christian neighbors in a way they couldn’t at Christmas or Easter, and I’m happy to know that the same is true today for American Muslims.

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  2. The blog post sort of rolled along with your three trips to the market and that gave it an organic feel. I could envision being with you as you described in practical terms what it means to be respectful of our neighbors and figure out how to keep them in the center – not the periphery – of our awareness.

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  3. mdewey says:

    I’d be interested in hearing more detail about the conversation with your step-daughter. What did she think of the relationship between food and faith? Did religious dietary laws strike her as anything other than rule-following? Were either of you able to identify any parallels in Christian tradition? I think the intersection of food and faith is rich terrain, and I’m always interested in what other people find there.

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  4. That is a beautiful story and so win-win! Your daughter gained insight, the store owner knew you, you shared a significant meal for a significant Muslim occasion and you expanded your own circle of Christian love. You will reap what you sow!

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